A family is like a ship; it consists of different members, each with his or her special skills and talents that contribute to the success and safety of that ship. The mother is often second in command and serves as an extension to the commander of the ship. The second in command is trained and ready to take over at any given moment if needed. 

 

The father is the captain of the ship. He is the commander who guides the ship, evaluates the weather and sea conditions and makes the hard choices in order to secure the safety and comfort of all those aboard the ship. 

 

If the captain is incapacitated or removed for any reason, the second in command can and will take over. The ship will continue its’ journey and finish but at what cost? Often many may be injured or die and great damage to the ship incurred as well! 

 

This is true of a family with no father. The mother can take command, keep it on course and finish the journey, but at what cost? Families with a father/captain are stronger and more secure. The family is better with a figurehead and leader. The skills and wisdom of the father passed down to his children are a priceless legacy! A family with a captain and second in command makes it almost indestructible! 

 

This Father’s Day let us honor those men who stand by and guide their children; creating a legacy of excellence, enduring strength and independence!

 

Happy Father’s Day